So I’m watching LOST with my kids. We’re starting from the beginning and we’re going to watch all the episodes together.

In the early episodes, the main characters encounter the monster.  It’s always in the shadows and is rarely seen.  And it led to a great conversation about fear. My kids didn’t even see it, yet they were afraid.  Their imaginations ran to the possibilities as opposed to what was actually happening.

In the first episode, Jack recounts a moment in surgery when he was overtaken by terror.  It was interesting to hear his experience.  For five seconds, he simply allowed himself to experience fear.  He allowed the fear to do it’s work.  It had arrived and so he gave into it.  But then after five seconds he confronted it, and it went away.

I’ve been asking myself how I deal with fear.  How often do I allow the fear to do it’s work? What I’ve observed about myself is that for the most part, my first reaction is to avoid fear.  And in trying to avoid it, I give it more power.  By avoiding it, I actually empower it with my resistance.  My initial thought is that if I give into it, I’ll be agreeing to it, as thought fear’s message were true.  But what I’m learning is that fear has value.  It has work to do.  Jack’s words remind me that there is a way through fear, but it usually begins with confronting it and allowing it do it’s work.

How do you experience fear?

I have a friend who is a buzzkill when it comes to fun. It seems that no matter what we’re doing he seems to see life through a paradigm of what he can’t do, versus what he can do.  I specifically notice that it revolves around pleasure.  And it made me think.

Why do you think some people are afraid of pleasure? And I’m not talking about those that aren’t, but instead those that are specifically afraid of things that God has designed into the human experience: enjoyment, thrill, sex, touch, etc.

Interested in your thoughts.

What do you do when something resonates inside of you, yet it’s not what you’ve grown up with?

Over the weekend I had the wonderful opportunity to present Discovering The God Imagination to Missiongathering for their annual retreat.  Some of the funnest people you will meet hang out in that community. And over and over again people came up to me saying roughly the same thing.

“I absolutely love what you are saying. It’s what I’ve felt for so much of my life.  It resonates inside of me.  Yet it’s NOT what I’ve been taught.”

I get that. It’s essentially the same thing I’ve had to say to myself for the last three years.  I had to address the tension of the dissonance in my own traditions, but it was impossible to stay within Christianity without a coherent story that reconciled.  And instead of leaving my faith, I simply sought out the Gospel within my own Scriptures.  Was it telling me something different.  And the answer was yes.

The argument I make is that the Gospel must produce life in order to be true. If it doesn’t, then our understanding of it is false.  Yet to abandon our old stories and interpretations mean facing relationships that might not agree with our choices.  The cost can be very high.  So if the point of the Gospel is to give us life, we hold the opportunity to ask if the cost of that relationship in the short term outweighs the gain of life.  Embracing the Gospel is then an act of courage.

The beauty of the Gospel is that it resonates within.  It speaks a story that is already embedded inside of us, written on our hearts from the beginning of time.  It speaks to reality and what is already and has always been true.  So when we hear it, it makes sense in a way that we can’t explain but know to be true.

To my new and old friends at Missiongathering. Thank you for your love and graciousness.  May you discover the depths of “It is good.”

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Of all the stories in the Bible, the moment David takes a stand against the Philistines has always been one that deeply intrigued me.

⁸ Goliath stood and shouted to the ranks of Israel, “Why do you come out and line up for battle? Am I not a Philistine, and are you not the servants of Saul? Choose a man and have him come down to me. ⁹ If he is able to fight and kill me, we will become your subjects; but if I overcome him and kill him, you will become our subjects and serve us.” ¹⁰ Then the Philistine said, “This day I defy the ranks of Israel! Give me a man and let us fight each other.” ¹¹ On hearing the Philistine’s words, Saul and all the Israelites were dismayed and terrified.(1 Sam 17:8-10)

Israel is being mocked and refuses to take a stand against the enemy. A giant stands before them willing to fight.

¹⁶ For forty days the Philistine came forward every morning and evening and took his stand. (1 Sam 17:16)

It’s interesting that the story paints the picture this way.  The giant was willing to take a stand.  It was willing to put it all on the line and fight.

David is sent to the front lines to give his brothers food and arrives at the scene.

²⁵ Now the Israelites had been saying, “Do you see how this man keeps coming out? He comes out to defy Israel. The king will give great wealth to the man who kills him. He will also give him his daughter in marriage and will exempt his father’s family from taxes in Israel.”

²⁶ David asked the men standing near him, “What will be done for the man who kills this Philistine and removes this disgrace from Israel?

It’s always intrigued me that David sees the unwillingness to fight as a disgrace.  In other words, they’ve lost their sense of story about who they are. They’ve lost site of their own grace.  David understands that the problem is not death but that Israel is holding onto a false story.  David then addresses King Saul.

³² David said to Saul, “Let no one lose heart on account of this Philistine; your servant will go and fight him.” (1 Sam 17:32)

³⁷ The LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine.” (1 Sam 17:37)

David remembers who he is. He takes a stand because he is God’s child.

Today, are you remembering who you are?  Are you willing to take a stand for your own dignity and identity?

Perhaps no element of my faith has changed more over the last ten years than my understanding of belonging.

Tony Jones recently highlighted a post by Jeff McSwain, who was fired by Young Life over what he describes as “theological differences.”

“In November of 2007, I was dismissed by Young Life for what was termed “theological differences.” Since 2001, I had been preaching the gospel with an emphasis on theological belonging, the idea that humanity belongs to Jesus Christ by virtue of creation and redemption. Rather than splitting Christ as Creator from Christ as Redeemer, I was keen to preserve the gospel symmetry proclaimed by Paul in Colossians 1, where he speaks of the Christ who created and reconciled all things (Col. 1:16, 20). This is the gospel “that has been proclaimed to every creature under heaven” (Col. 1:23). This is the gospel that declares that every person is included not only in the first Adam but also in the second (Rom. 5:18).

My point was that preaching this kind of a Christ-centered message actually brings congruence between our incarnational work and our proclamation message.

This story hit me because my wife spent five years in Young Life.  It was one of the more important experiences in her faith development.  When we were dating, I got to spend countless hours following her to meetings, singing songs, and going to ice cream with the kids afterward.  The central idea of Young Life was to hang with the kids and love them…period.  Very little Scripture was provided.  The dominant means of communication was through belonging.

What surprised me even more was that if Young Life took its current policy to its conclusion, Jim Rayburn the original founder would likely have been fired too. The irony of this whole incident is humorous on so many levels.  Rayburn founded Young Life on the idea of belonging.  Jeff provides a remarkable story about Rayburn’s original ideas.

In 1957 at the Young Life Staff Conference Rayburn taught on 2 Corinthians 5:19, which explains “that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men’s sins against them.” Said Rayburn:

“Reconciliation. Every single person in the whole wide world is now reconciled to God. [. . .] It’s been true for nearly two thousand years. I wonder what they [high school kids] would do if they knew it [. . .]. God has reconciled us, all of us, it’s already done.”Universalism? No, but definitely universal belonging. I italicized that last phrase, I wonder what they would do if they knew it, because the inflective anticipation in Rayburn’s voice on the recording of this talk is unavoidable. He is talking about how Young Life was founded “out of theology”; he relates how these great truths regarding the reconciliation and redemption of all people “rang the bell” in his heart and he became increasingly zealous to get the good news to his thirsty young friends.

What didn’t surprise me is that it worked.  Young Life consistently drew kids in because they began with belonging. They began with the idea that each kid was God’s valuable child, even if they didn’t know it yet.

McSwain calls out our historical approaches to the mat and reveals the contradiction in both forms.  But his quoting of Barth is fascinating.  He shares:

When Barth was asked, after all that he had written about the gospel, to summarize it as succinctly as possible, he responded with the familiar, simple words to the song “Jesus Loves Me.” We teach our children these words—“Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so, little ones to him belong, they are weak, but he is strong”—are we to tell kids that when they get to be a certain age this is no longer the case? Are we to tell them they belong to Jesus if . . .? Is belonging with an if really belonging at all?

It made me think that one of the deepest theological issues of our time is a fundamental shift back to belonging, beginning with the idea of the reconciliation of all things. This will be a central component of my book coming out.  What if we began with the idea that God actually has reconciled the world.

I wonder if our fear of actually living into the idea of belonging is not that it is true.  I would argue that we already do begin with this idea, we just dont’ admit it. Our fear resides in what we think would happen if people accepted it as true.  Would it make much of our institutional structures and activities obsolete?  Would it transform culture in a way that we’ve dreamed of but can’t get to because we can’t seem to get out of the way?

What are you running from that is meant to transform you?

About eight years ago I made the intentional decision to face my fears.  My mentor told me a very important story of a man who had been running from his fear for ages. My mentor had worked with this man for a while and finally told him to reimagine the fear once again, to call it up.  When the man did, his face became flush with the same emotions that had troubled him for so long.  The fear always took the form of a lion and it had repeatedly chased him.  Each time it did, he would run away, fall just as the lion was about to pounce and then wake up from fright.  As the lion once again chased him, my mentor asked him to finally turn and around and ask the lion his name.  Deeply afraid the man finally turned to the lion and asked, “What is your name?”

What happens next changed my life.  The lion says to him, “I am your courage.  Why are your running from me?”

I’ve often wondered how many times I’ve run from my courage, thinking it was something that would kill me.  My mentor helped me begin the process of embracing my courage to face my fears and rediscover their purpose in my life.  When I run from something I’m often missing out on its intended purpose.

I made a decision the day I heard that story.  I decided I was going to face my fear.  I was going to confront the lions in my life in order to discover their purpose.  And what surprised me is how many were actually paper tigers, invention of my own imagination.  My fears had ruled my life in ways that were destructive and even oppressive.  Others were deeply important messages God was trying to communicate to me.  Yet it was not until I faced them that I could remove them or transform their meaning.

The Adventurous Way is about facing our fears in order to discover their purpose.  The call to follow Jesus is essentially the adventurous path to life.  Jesus confronted the all encompassing fear of death and transformed our understanding of it.  But it was not possible until he chose to face it, address it and transform its meaning.

I invite you to join me in this adventurous way. What are you afraid of that is inviting you to turn and rediscover its meaning and purpose?

Recently I was watching a video on a church related topic and one of the people in the video kept saying, “These things must take place to be Biblical.” And something inside of me kept poking me in the side when he said that.  So I sat with it for about six point two seconds and then it hit me.

I think I’ve finally gotten my head around why the word, “Biblical” really bugs me.  When someone creates a distinction of what is Biblical, it creates a framework for that person says the Bible says is acceptable.  It’s a judgment or interpretation the person is making, or in other words, what me must do be considered, “acceptable.”

That’s religion.

And it flies in the face of grace because the Good News is, “We begin acceptable.”  We can’t earn it.  We can only enjoy it and embrace it into our lives.  But once we create a distinction of what is “acceptable” we’ve removed ourselves from that grace.  We’ve gone back to the old way which is to earn it.  And our practices become something to earn God’s love as opposed to something that enhances our enjoyment of the living God.